I missed my Hong Kong (at least my memories of it seen through rose-colored glasses), and over the years I have stayed in touch by following the news, events and important changes of this energetic city-state. The action, romance and comedic silliness of Hong Kong movies and television programs, along with music such as Sam Hui's brand of Cantopop… also continued to resonate from a distance. I have returned to visit on a carefree holiday and I have also returned to sadly watch my beloved grandfather wither away before my very eyes. The truth is that struggle is here and everywhere. Was my parents' sacrifice and search for a better existence worth leaving behind close family, friends and a familiar way of life?